Temi-T Heart Clinic

14 Jan

​You are welcome back, and thanks for your contributions, it is still the number one relationship program Temi-T Heart clinic and today we are looking into the various types of love and which is the best to practice.

   Love means a thousand thing to a thousand people but according wikipedia, ” love usually refers to an

experience one person feels for another. Love

often involves caring for, or identifying with, a

person or thing (cf. vulnerability and care

theory of love), including oneself (cf.

narcissism). In addition to cross-cultural

differences in understanding love, ideas about

love have also changed greatly over time”. love therefore is a feeling that matures with time, and it could be towards human and animals. Also according to THELOVE.ONE; Love is a special and complicated emotion

which is quite difficult to understand.

Although most people believe that love

revolves around the heart, it actually occurs

in the brain. Artists, poets and painters all

epitomize the heart as the love symbol, but

it’s the brain that generates chemical signals

to make people understand love. There are

different forms and styles of expressing love.

To describe these styles, the Ancient Greeks

came up with four terms (Eros, storge, agape

and philia) to symbolize the four types of

love. Let us look at these four loves in




This is an unconditional love that sees

beyond the outer surface and accepts the

recipient for whom he/she is, regardless of

their flaws, shortcomings or faults. It’s the

type of love that everyone strives to have for

their fellow human beings. Although you may

not like someone, you decide to love them

just as a human being. This kind of love is

all about sacrifice as well as giving and

expecting nothing in return. The translation

of the word agape is love in the verb – form:

it is the love demonstrated by your behavior

towards another person. It is a committed

and chosen love.


The phileo love refers to an affectionate,

warm and tender platonic love. It makes you

desire friendship with someone. It’s the kind

of love which livens up the Agape love.

Although you may have an agape love for

your enemies, you may not have a phileo

love for the same people. The translation of

the word phileo is love in the noun – form: it

is how you feel about someone. It is a

committed and chosen love.


It is a kind of family and friendship love. This

is the love that parents naturally feel for their

children; the love that member of the family

have for each other; or the love that friends

feel for each other. In some cases, this

friendship love may turn into a romantic

relationship, and the couple in such a

relationship becomes best friends. Storge

love is unconditional, accepts flaws or faults

and ultimately drives you to forgive. It’s

committed, sacrificial and makes you feel

secure, comfortable and safe.


Eros is a passionate and intense love that

arouses romantic feelings; it is the kind that

often triggers “high” feelings in a new

relationship and makes you say, “I love him/

her”. It is simply an emotional and sexual

love. Although this romantic love is

important in the beginning of a new

relationship, it may not last unless it moves

a notch higher because it focuses more on

self instead of the other person. If the person

“in love” does not feel good about their

relationship anymore, they will stop loving

their partner.

   Now after critically considering and analysing the different types of love, you will agree with me that the Agape love is the best because it is all encompassing and is able to survive in all situation. 

    On this note we have come to the end of this edition of the best relationship program. we will be expecting your comments and views, and most importantly, we want to help you find a lasting solution to that problem in your relationship or in other relationships that you have observed, remember that a problem shared is a problem half solved. please forward your issues to our email 

i will be delighted to hear from you.

    Till i come you way next time, i remain my humble self Temi-Tope, A.K.A, Temi-T Heart Doctor saying have a nice weekend.

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