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​Abraham Lincoln On his first day

in office as President of

United States of America:

Abraham Lincoln entered the

hallowed chamber to give his

Inaugural Address. Then a rich

Aristocrat stood up and said: “Mr. Lincoln, you should not forget to tell us that

your father used to

make shoes for my family”….And

the whole Senate

laughed. They thought they had

made a fool of Lincoln…

But certain people are made of a

totally different gene.

Lincoln looked at the man directly

in the eyes and said:

“Sir, I know that my father used

to make shoes for

your family, and there will be

many others here too,

because he made shoes the way

nobody else can.

He was a creator. His shoes were

not just ordinary shoes

cos he poured his whole soul

into them. I

want to ask you, have you any

complaint? Because

I know how to make shoes

myself. If you have any

complaint, I can make you

another pair of shoes.

But as far as I know, nobody has

ever complained

about my father’s shoes. He was

a genius, a great creator

and I am proud of my father”.

The whole senate was

dumbstruck. They could not

understand what kind of man

Abraham Lincoln

was. He was proud because his

father did his job so well

that not even a single complaint

had ever been

heard. Remember, no one can

hurt us without our

consent. It is not what happens

to us that hurts us, it is our

response that hurts us. There are

people out there whose

only job is to hurt others. Don’t

give them a reason to have

so much work on their hands.

May your days be blessed!

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Posted by on May 31, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

​# fashionwithik

Looking good is also part of fashion,the two works together so i will be giving us tips to looking good.

Stand up straight

Standing and walking with your shoulders back and your head up.

Move,act and speak with confidence

Confidence is incredibly attractive,begin speaking and acting in ways that value your time,ideas and contributions.while you’re working on building your own confidence, be sure to treat others in a way that builds theirs.

Make time for the things that are important to you.

Play up your best features

Everyone has good features-the trick is to identify them and play them up.

Dress in ways that help you feel attractive. Begin dressing in ways that help you feel good about your appearance,this isn’t about impressing others.instead,it’s about dressing in ways that makes you feel attractive.

Above all know your shape/figure type and know what works for you.

 
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Posted by on May 31, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

#Heralds13

Orpah Gail Winfrey

(also known as Oprah Winfrey)

She is an American media proprietor , talk show host, actress, producer, and philanthropist who was born on the 29th of January 1954 in Kosciusko Mississippi to a teenage single mother. She actually was named “Orpah ” on her birth certificate but people mispronounced it regularly and “Oprah” became the name everyone now knows.Her mother, Vernita Lee, was a housemaid while her biological father Vernon Winfrey was a coal miner who turned into a barber and later turned into a city councilman. He was in the Armed Forces when orpah was born. Winfrey spent her first six years living in rural poverty with her maternal grandmother Hattie Mae. She was so poor that Winfrey often wore dresses made of potato sacks, for which the local children made fun of her. It was her grandmother who taught her how to read before the age of three and took her to the local church, where she was nicknamed “The Preacher” for her ability to recite Bible verses. At age six, Winfrey moved to Wisconsin in Milwaukee ,with her mother Vernita Lee, who was less supportive and encouraging than her grandmother. Lee gave birth to another daughter and the stress of managing the two girls made her sent Orpah to Vernon her father. It was Vernon who though was strict that encouraged and made her education a priority. Winfrey became an honors student and was voted Most Popular Girl in her school. she joined her high school speech team at East Nashville High School. She won an oratory contest, which made her full scholarship to Tennessee State University a reality. She studied communication at Tennessee State University. Her first job as a teenager was working at a local grocery store. At the age of 17, She won the Miss Black Tennessee beauty pageant. This attracted the attention of the local black radio station, WVOL , which hired her to do the news part-time. She worked there during her senior year of high school, and in the first two years of college.She is best known for her talk show The Oprah Winfrey Show , which was the highest-rated television program of its kind in history and was nationally syndicated from 1986 to 2011 in Chicago, Illinois.  “Queen of All Media” as she is nicknamed has been ranked the richest African-American, the greatest black philanthropist in American history and she is currently North America’s first and only multi-billionaire black person so far. In 2013, she was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President Barack Obama and a honorary doctorate degrees from Duke and Harvard. Though Oprah initially had a challenging background so much that she got pregnant at 14 but later lost the baby, she has proven to be a strong lady and a model to so many ladies.

Moral lesson.

As usual I would like us to learn something from the life of every personality we feature on herald so from Winfrey’s life its pertinent to learn that

1. Your past could be bad, dirty and discouraging but your future can become a note worthy life if you ever push through to make your present better than your past. Don’t allow your background cover the glory of your beautiful future. 

2. You have all it takes to be great, just look inwards and let your challenge if there is any,be a catalyst of your greatness.

Its being Heralds with Julius Ojonugwa Akubo on Treasure network. catch you next week.

Wishing you a blessed week!!!

 
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Posted by on May 29, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

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LOVE and YOU

THE LOVE ON A SUICIDE MISSION
It’s another week on LOVE AND YOU, and i really want to welcome you to this program as we shall be looking at the part 2 of when love becomes a heavy weight. 

Our topic today: the love on a suicide mission, we shall be looking at four basic things that send the love you are expressing or expecting on brutal suicide mission. Stay tuned.

1. Defective communication -This has to do with actions and oral communication, most times as partners we do not know how to effectively communicate what we want to say to others, most times use wrong words which always seems abusive and irritating, such words could send a very wrong opinion of us to our partners, which can lead to anger. One irony of this defective communication is that before it occurs to the sender that he or she communicated wrongly the partner might have already exercised a full blown anger. A silent aspect of defective communication is ill mannered approach, which of course has to do with lack of good manner in communication and using harsh words in answering questions. The moment your love life or relationship is characterized with this, believe me you, the love in that relationship is already on a brutal journey of suicide mission.
2. Assumptions (especially wrong ones)- people most times judge the mood and actions of their partners wrongly and assume their partner hates them, most times they do not know what has affected their mood and don’t even care to ask, he or she is behaving cold might not mean she hates you then, maybe she just needs you to understand she needs space, time, rest etc. And this wrong assumptions kills relationship. Stephen Campbell opined that making assumptions without enough information is the quickest way to damage someone’s reputation in our minds.
3. Misunderstanding– a times what one person says might be different from what the other person hears, what someone meant can be different from what the partner understands and this is a love killer. This leads to quarrels in most cases and the worst part of it is that both parties will never admit to be wrong or right in most cases and at this moment their love has only one option which is suicide_mission.

4. Lack of self control. Most times people find it difficult to control and mange situations especially unpleasant ones which can affect their relationship, they easily gets angry, out of control, you can’t talk them down or advice when they are in that mood, that is a bad one and on the other hand excessive emotional desire without control which even makes partners to be irritated. The moment a partner puts his or her desire, happiness above or at the expense of the other partner, then your love life just took a step of suicide mission.

Conclusively if the above items are found in your love life or relationship then its time to either Sit and talk extensively or Visit a consellor. LITTLE THINGS AS THESE CAN SEND THE LOVE YOU ARE EXPRESSING OR EXPECTING ON A  SUICIDE MISSION

Next week on part three we shall look at Giving love abeffiting burial.
This is  LOVE AND YOU on Tresure network. See you same time, next week. Don’t forget to like, share and publicize this network. HAPPY WEEKEND

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Posted by on May 28, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

​# fashionwithik

Thanks for your readership and followership on this trend.today is a continuation of the previous “color blocking”
Other rules of color blocking are;

It’s important to stick to the same saturation of color.

1. Try to play within the range of three colors in one outfit to avoid any style blunder,the fourth one will look already too much.

2. Pay attention to your complexion and hair color.

3. Keep in mind that too bright and massive color blocking tends to make your figure look bigger.

4. Dress smartly; Don’t dress to “kill”rather dress to look good and comfortable.

Thank you!

 
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Posted by on May 23, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

#Heralds12

​On Heralds this week is the last Nigerian we shall be considering for this month.

He is…….

Igho Charles Sanomi

Igho Charles Sanomi is a Nigerian businessman, trained geologist, public speaker and philanthropist. He was born on the 17th of May 1975 in Agbor , Delta State , Nigeria. His father was a notable retired Assistant Inspector General of the Nigerian Police, Dickens Patrick Sanomi from Delta state Nigeria and his mother Mabel Iyabo Sanomi was the Yeye Jemo of Isotun Ijesha Kingdom in Osun State. She was a nurse and medical entrepreneur from Osun State in South Western Nigeria .They were Catholics.Igho Sanomi graduated with a bachelor’s degree in Geology and Mining from the University of Jos, Plateau State in Nigeria. His line of business Span into several sectors of the economy including telecommunications, shipping, aviation, engineering, construction and real estate investments in Nigeria and beyond. In the late 1990s he was an Executive Director with Cosmos Oil AG where he developed a lot of business skills. Charles sits either as a chairman, Co-chairman or Member of board of directors of various companies, which he either founded or co-founded. By 2004 he founded the Taleveras Group a Nigerian energy trading company with offices in London,Geneva,Dubai,Cape town, Ivory Coast, Lagos and Abuja. This group merged all his business activities.Taleveras has an annual turnover of several billions of dollars with Igho being the controlling shareholder of the group. He is also a great philanthropist and his philanthropic works are expressed through the Dickens Sanomi foundation.He is the Chairman Board of trustees of the DS foundation. The foundation organises annual essay competition for junior and senior secondary schools. The foundation gives grants towards the winners school fees as well as support the winning school with equipments. The foundation also gave about N100 million to flood victims in Delta and Bayelsa State, as part of its intervention programme to mitigate the effects of the devastating flood on the people. These and many more eexpress his philanthropy to the society.

Moral Lesson

There is always something to learn from anybody let’s learn from Igho Sanomi’s life

1. This lesson is specifically for the young people out there. Never you feel you are too young to achieve greatness either in business or in which ever area it is that you find yourself. Igho is in his forties but he is a billionaire. You too can be a billionaire even at a lesser age than that after all you won’t be the first. But always ensure that your wealth is clean and not acquired by mischievous activities.

2. considering the exploits of Igho in the various sectors you would agry with me that it was not child’s play. Hardwork is clearly evident here. Stop being lazy, hardwork doesn’t kill people, it makes serious people.

Its being Heralds with Julius Ojonugwa Akubo on Treasure network. catch you next week.

Wishing you a blessed week!!!

 
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Posted by on May 22, 2017 in Uncategorized

 

TTHC a.k.a Love&You

​When LOVE becomes a heavy WEIGHT. Part 1

It’s another week on TTHC, LOVE AND YOU, and i realy want to welcome you to yet another wonderful edition of the program.

Our topic today is expositionary, which tends to show how people have been weighed down while trying to LOVE OR BE LOVED. Stay tuned.

Often times people tend to wonder why they are so unfortunate when it comes to issue of love, indeed love in this contemporary society due to influx of many ideas has become multi-faced and multi-farious.

The fortunate or unfortunate aspect of the issue, is that love is a two way traffic which has two ends (persons), the issue of reciprocation has become the pointer to a successful or unsuccessful love life both at inception and mature stage

The obscurity and absurdity of the reality of this often times manufactured, imagined emotional relationships has presented so many situations as follows:

– Love presents you with choice(s) while your choice(s) don’t present you as an option

– You know whom you love but you don’t know who loves you

– The irony of love turns you into a very confused human being when your emotionality and rationality becomes two good opponents

– Love often times shows what is good but don’t show which lasts

– Love has an expectation period which not met brings a breach to a friendly relationship

– The wave of love begins to meander when it transcends from the heart to the brain (baseless love)

Many ideas exist as to the definition of love because of diverse experiences (both negative and positive). These experiences sees love as:

– An unconditional expression of emotions between two people

– An abstract or non-existing phenomena

– Strong affection for somebody

– One way traffic, no reciprocation

– Discomforting yourself to comfort somebody

– Imaginary idea which transcends to reality with positive impacts

– Being blind

– Genuine love is inexpressible

– Crown of life.

Contextually(personally), love is an emotional, mental, physical biological strong drive you have or develop towards somebody. Personal research has made me imagine love as an organ in the body which often times if not attended to when needed shut down or reduces the whole activity of the body in all dimensions.

The answers to these following questions or situations tells us more on how and when love becomes a heavy weight:

1. What happens after all resources and ideas has been put into action just to show love and the response from the other ends becomes “I taught you were just being a good friend”

2. Love becomes hurting and unplanned sacrifice when after all has been done and your response is just a wave of hand

3. The irony of love often times is evidenced inform of uncertainty towards what you actually want or need(indecision)

4. The choices love presents under the auspices of “all of them is good” but the right one is the great puzzle has made some to have a knowledge of what they don’t want or wouldn’t expect in a prospective partner but can`t say for sure this is the exact person needed.

The debated issue remains, who should be held responsible for WHY love has become a heavy weight why trying to love or be loved, the lady or the guy?

The question however has led to contextual explanation of reasons accounting for who should be held responsible.

*The woman

Women were created as a distinctive and emotional being with all composition having high magnetic and seductive qualities, though often weak or loosed emotionally are always adjudged with the major cause of the phenomena with the following basis:

– At inception love pushes a lady towards a guy who is available or not available depending on the level of her perceived feelings.

– Ladies expresses high level of emotionality with little or no effect of rationality and when given some time, she begins to have a second thought to what was sparked up before and suddenly backs off from a relationship, leaving the other person heart broken.

– Ladies often times posses what is termed as ‘expectation period’ which implies that, the moment the lady does not get any response from the proposed partner for a long time, this developed affection and emotions begins to die down or targeted towards another.

– The woman though weak is a complex being when it comes to understanding.

*The man

Man was created as a goal oriented being who often times are not into feelings as a woman but works towards achieving a perceived goal per time. The guy equally can be seen as a major cause too with the following basis:

– Guys often times posses high level of uncertainty resulting to indecision in emotional affairs

– Guys posses high level of rationality, like wise in emotional affair, men unlike ladies thinks of the future of a relationship even before going into it, but often times even when it is obvious, because of the satisfaction which can be derived at the present resort into life of deception and pretence.

Generally it can be said that the major factor accounting for unsuccessful relationships as the situation might be is not one sided.

The mystery of the love of few often times goes beyond general judgments and expectations. A guy/lady might not see a lady/guy who from general judgments of people (to be good and pleasing) might not see same to be acceptable, under the notion of ‘’he/she is good but my spirit is not accepting her’’. The issue of genuine love has gone beyond just the mental and emotional acceptance, some people believes at least the moment you see a lady/guy who people thinks is best for you, there should be this ‘felt excitement’ you experience within you that makes you feel ‘yes this is the person’.

Personally I have classified the inception of a feeling of affection or love for somebody under three(3) categories of which virtually 99.9% of love affairs or relationship emanated from one or two of these three categories

1. “Fall in love” some people develops affection for somebody just instantly, immediately or suddenly they get to meet those people and this is occasioned by some acceptable qualities they see (often times exceptional), maybe by the way the person talks, dressed, walks, reasons, appearance, selection of colours, beauty etc. These people sometimes have little or no control of this feeling and that accounts for why a guy/lady sees lady/guy at an ATM queue, parks, stations, class etc and that instance falls in love with that person. Love at first sight falls under this category. Generally definition to this category can be seen as an immediate or sudden attraction developed for somebody. Most often under this category your emotionality suppresses your rationality and that accounts for why 60% of people under this category of love life don’t experience a lasting relationship or love affair.

2. “Grow on to love” some people gradually develops affections or feelings for somebody ,this is different from the first category as these feelings of affection or attraction is not sudden or immediate, the lady/guy most times grows on to love a guy/lady because of the person`s constant presence or better termed “sticking arround” which accounts for why a lady can marry a man she doesn’t really love and in couple of weeks or months she grows on to love the man and sees the man as her perfect lover. In this category emotionality and rationality reaches equilibrium.

3. “Discovered love” while 50-70% of people falls under the two above stated categories, the rest just discover they have feelings of affection or attraction as they relate, go out, play etc. This can be seen as an unconscious development of affection for somebody after a relatively long period of interactions. The feeling developed in the category of “grow on to love” is consciously done but in this category the feeling is just discovered in process of interaction and that is why a boss can wake up one morning and discover he/she is developing feelings for his/her subordinate after 1-3years of working relationship and equally a boy and girl who grew up together to adulthood in the same environment can discover love , this is not out of place , when one has a perceived good opinion towards somebody and the both are friends, always together, it just takes a little time for these people to come to discover that they are already developing feeling for one another.

Conclusively no matter where the heart goes, at the end it stays with who its meant to stay with irrespective of complexities encountered either at inception or process of love life. Thanks.

This is # TTHC aka Love and You on Tresure network. See you same time, next week. Don’t forget to share and publicize this network.

 HAPPY WEEKEND

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Posted by on May 20, 2017 in Uncategorized