EDUCATION
He is too critical!
She is just outdated!
“THINGS TO CHECK OR RESOLVE BEFORE MARRIAGE ” Part 6
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Welcome back to another lovely edition on Love and You.
We will round up the “educational” aspect of things to resolve before marriage today
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Am I comfortable with my partner’s level of education?
Compare your partner’s level of education with your own. Are you proud of him or her? Add this to your status and vision and see how it comes out. Do not marry somebody you are not proud of, or someone with whom you cannot have a meaningful discussion.
How much does my partner know about parenthood?
Remember that you are planning to get married, not to play ‘house’. Be sure that your intended spouse is sufficiently mature and well-informed to be a father or mother.
How knowledgeable is my partner in areas outside his or her own discipline?
Specialisation is generally acclaimed, but a man or woman who can make intelligent conversation in areas outside his or her sphere of specialisation will definitely make an interesting and dependable partner to live with.
Does he or she tease or insult my intelligence?
Any man or woman who makes fun of your level of intelligence will not make the wonderful partner you dream of. He or she will never accept your opinion on anything and will make light of your decisions and suggestions.
Is my partner over-reliant on the intellect, or does he or she rely on the Holy Spirit?
Is your future partner one who believes he or she can do all things through logic and reason alone, and who will not accept any position if it is not logical or explicable through known facts or thought processes? Does he or she always doubt the miraculous? A partner like this will truncate your spiritual growth and may frustrate your walk with God.
Does my partner carry on like a know-it-all?
If your partner is the kind of person who does not want to be seen as wrong on any subject and, when he or she is wrong, will always find some cunning way to justify his or her stand, then he or she definitely has an attitude problem and may not be ripe for marriage.
In our next edition, we will consider “Background” (the influence of family and environment) on his/her perception and interaction. This will help give you a safe landing.
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Ocheh Emmanuel
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